The Negative Impact Of Powerless Words
Welcome back to the Fit Body Lifestyle—where we’re all about transforming not just our bodies, but our mindsets and messages. In this power-packed episode, Jami and Greg uncover a sneaky saboteur that’s often hiding in plain sight: powerless words.
Words like try, should, might, and could might seem harmless, but they can seriously water down your power, your purpose, and your ability to communicate with strength. These words sneak into our speech when we’re unsure, afraid to commit, or trying to soften the blow—but what they really do is weaken our presence and intention.
From hilarious Yoda impressions (yes, really!) to real-life coaching and leadership examples, this episode will have you rethinking your everyday phrases—and trading them in for words that mean business. Whether you're leading a team, setting goals, or guiding your kids, your words matter more than you think.
5 Key Takeaways:
“Try” is Not a Commitment—It’s an Escape Hatch
As Yoda wisely said, “Do or do not. There is no try.” Saying you’ll “try” to do something gives you an easy out and sends the message that you're not truly committed. Swap it for action: “I will” or “I am.”Should, Would, and Could = Shaky Ground
These words signal hesitation. Instead of “I should go to the gym,” say “I will go to the gym.” It’s about choosing empowering language that aligns with action and accountability.“Maybe” and “Might” Leave the Door Wide Open for Inaction
These words often signal uncertainty and avoidance. If you find yourself saying “maybe,” pause and ask—what’s the commitment? Clear intentions create confident communication.“Want To” Without Action is Just a Wish
“I want to get you a gift” doesn’t mean much if the gift never comes. Replace “want to” with a clear plan or just do the thing—because action speaks louder than vague desire.Your Words Shape Reality—So Speak with Purpose
Whether you’re texting, leading, or parenting, your word choices matter. Powerless words dilute your presence. Strong, intentional language communicates clarity, leadership, and trust.
